January82013

Warning rant ahead

I just want to say a few things about physical contact that I think some people really ought to know, and chances are everyone on tumblr already knows or at least understands.

There are people in this world that do not like being touched or touching. It’s a perfectly acceptable way to be, and people who don’t like physical contact understand there are people that do.

Here’s what I want affectionate people to understand: when I tell you I don’t like physical contact Do Not respond by

Touching me. Seriously wtf is that about?
Challenging me. ‘You hug so and so’ I’ve probably known them for years and have finally felt comfortable enough to allow brief hugs that he or she initiate.
Ask how my husband will feel. Um. What? Can someone please explain why you care more about my hypothetical spouse(thanks for the heteronormative to boot!) than me, supposedly your friend?

Seriously people. I get this all the fucking time. I don’t like being touched. Your response should be ‘oh, okay.’ You will not change how I feel about physical contact. Stop trying.

ramble rant angryfeels seriously i'm tried of explaining this shit 

December232012

rnackenzie:

WRAPPING THINGS THAT AREN’T SQUARE IS IMPOSSIBLE

(via fatpeoplemakemehappy)

November152012
oatmeal: How inspiration works.  Read the rest of the comic here: http://theoatmeal.com/comics/making_things

oatmeal:

How inspiration works. 

Read the rest of the comic here: http://theoatmeal.com/comics/making_things
October52012

donghaestongue:

Have you ever watched your friends from afar and realized they seem happier without you.

(Source: ludakrease, via benedikutokanbabatchi)

September262012

(Source: ohyousillypotato, via malaptica)

Dinosaurs my people I feel there should be more of this on my blog 

September252012

ninemoons42:

graphitedoll:

i re-watched the avengers on my flight from Singapore and i noticed a few things about our favorite hawk <3

Clint is a genius, guys, one must have a brain to be an archer, duh! Plus tactician and strategist and sniper and eyes in the sky! Brains are required for all of those positions!
September242012

Stay. Don't Go.: Obscure Questions, do etttt.

revychumso:

mycroftson:

1: What eye color do you find sexiest?
2: White, milk, or dark chocolate mocha?
3: If you could get a Sharpie tattoo on your back, what would it be?
4: Did you grow up in a small or big town? Did you like it?
5: Your favorite adult as a child? (and not…

(Source: sheepyshavings)

7PM
huladori: experimentalmadness: THE FUCK IS THIS? Is this secret implying Erik raped Magda? Or that…something….non-consensual occurred? I don’t. What. Is this? No really. What is this. I’m fucking speechless. trying to come up with a humorous response to alleviate the terribleness of this confession but it’s just not working so.  Dear, sweet Anon.  Kaire anon. point by point: 1. You like it but it’s over the top.  Pick one. 2. There is no such thing as a non-rapist Roman Polanski.  No one has any idea what you’re saying. 3. It…does inform his future actions though.  A lot.  They have children together.  One of those children is one of the most powerful mutants to ever exist and she’s a key figure in several Marvel stories, and his relationship to her changes the course of human history so, uhm.  What are you saying isn’t necessary about Magda to inform his future actions?  His choice in mouthwash?  Yeah, I’d agree with you on that one. Benefit of the doubt here, and maybe by clean up confessor meant something less tragic? Like Magda left because the relationship wasn&#8217;t working? (although I do believe even Magda leaving him informs his character a hell of a lot, because she is totally justified in fleeing and being afraid, but it must have shaken Erik to his core that the woman he loved and was loved by could leave him. And he may have even assumed it was because of what he /could/ do (he used his powers, I think, I could be totally wrong here.) rather than the fact he did it. I could maybe go for it, if Magda, Anya and Wanda and Pietro were all alive and visited Erik post-divorce.  But, no to writing out Magda completely. 

huladori:

experimentalmadness:

THE FUCK IS THIS?

Is this secret implying Erik raped Magda?

Or that…something….non-consensual occurred?

I don’t.

What.

Is

this?

No really.

What is this.

I’m fucking speechless.

trying to come up with a humorous response to alleviate the terribleness of this confession but it’s just not working

so.  Dear, sweet Anon.  Kaire anon.

point by point:

1. You like it but it’s over the top.  Pick one.

2. There is no such thing as a non-rapist Roman Polanski.  No one has any idea what you’re saying.

3. It…does inform his future actions though.  A lot.  They have children together.  One of those children is one of the most powerful mutants to ever exist and she’s a key figure in several Marvel stories, and his relationship to her changes the course of human history so, uhm.  What are you saying isn’t necessary about Magda to inform his future actions?  His choice in mouthwash?  Yeah, I’d agree with you on that one.

Benefit of the doubt here, and maybe by clean up confessor meant something less tragic? Like Magda left because the relationship wasn’t working? (although I do believe even Magda leaving him informs his character a hell of a lot, because she is totally justified in fleeing and being afraid, but it must have shaken Erik to his core that the woman he loved and was loved by could leave him. And he may have even assumed it was because of what he /could/ do (he used his powers, I think, I could be totally wrong here.) rather than the fact he did it.

I could maybe go for it, if Magda, Anya and Wanda and Pietro were all alive and visited Erik post-divorce. 

But, no to writing out Magda completely. 

(Source: firstclassconfessions, via malaptica)
September232012

beingevil:

fyeahsmokinhot:

Yes, yes and yes please!

At first I thought this was an AU gifset.
I read Neal’s look in the last .gif as He still doesn’t get it.

(via turtletotem)
September202012

So, yeah, I’m doing this. It’s my blog.

All right, so I’m going to talk about this because I’ve been meaning to for weeks, mostly for myself and now in light of disgusting things like this (http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/73258510/sad-pictures-for-children/posts/311890)

Trigger Warning: Attempted suicide (not graphic, though), suicidal thoughts, depression

(Also, I’m really okay now, so don’t worry about me)

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personal like ridiculously personal depression suicidal thoughts attempted suicide 

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